Jul 14 – 21, 2024 | Little Sparks #61

Hello!

This week was Culture Week at my workplace. We had several activities scheduled – all of which were a lot of fun. I got to try an escape room for the first time and had a BLAST! I’ll definitely be trying more of them in the future.

Here’s my reading highlight:

The Fox Wife by Yangsze Choo
4 stars

I’m glad I gave Yangsze Choo another chance! This book was way more engaging and well-written than The Ghost Bride.

I’ve always enjoyed Asian fox stories—I’ve read and watched many gumiho (Korean fox) stories and huli jing (Chinese fox) dramas—but this is my first time reading a novel about huli jings. Yangsze did an excellent job weaving in culture and history, especially as the story is set in 1908 Manchuria. I could easily see the influence of Korean-Japanese culture on the characters’ lives. It was also really fun finding out how Bao and Snow are connected in the story; the plot twist at the end was also fantastically executed.  

Jul 8 – 13, 2024 | Little Sparks #60

Hi there!

How’s your summer going? Mine is looking pretty fun, with several water activities planned and lots of feasting.

Here’s my reading highlight:

Jana Goes Wild by Farah Heron
4 stars

This piece had a well-written storyline involving a mistake that was just ‘grave enough to be significant, yet minor enough to be forgiven with time’. The location – a destination wedding in Serengeti National Park was also a lot of fun to read about, with many different wildlife and interesting interactions among wedding guests.

The female lead, Jana, has never really fit in. Everyone always sees her as too aloof, too cool, or too perfect. We also see strong character development with Jana getting out of her comfort zone, out of her head, and acknowledging her emotions.

Jul 1 – 7, 2024 | Little Sparks #59

Hello!

There were several heat wave warnings this week. I spent and enjoyed my weekend staying cool.

Here’s my reading highlight:

After I Do by Taylor Jenkins Reid
5 stars

Yet another Taylor Jenkins Reid book that pulled at my heartstrings. Life and love are fragile.

It was an interesting spin on a romance book about the end of a relationship. Reid did a great job pulling readers into the lives and emotions of the characters, unsure of how the book/relationship should end. It was such a heavily character-driven plot, where, as the reader, I wasn’t fixated on how the story would end but very immersed in the characters (I didn’t spend time rooting for them to get back together like we often do reading a romance book. I wanted the best for them, and I was affirmative that they could be happy apart). Reid does a great job writing such character-driven books. The side characters were also so robust, with exciting storylines.

Jun 24 – 30, 2024 | Little Sparks #58

Hello!

This week, I spent most of my time re-reading my old favourites. It’s summertime, so I’m continuing my tradition of reading the A Court of Thorns and Roses series from the second book onwards.

Here’s my reading highlight:

Orange: The Complete Collection, Volume 1 by Ichigo Takano
3 stars

I can’t remember the last time I read a manga. I decided to pick Orange because I have heard many folks talk about the series.

It took a little while to get into the plot. I’m not sure why – maybe it’s cause it’s been a while since I’ve read manga, or maybe it’s because the series is about high school kids, and I’m pretty removed from that experience.

I’m still considering whether to continue the series. On the other hand, this definitely won’t be my last manga read.

Jun 17 – 23, 2024 | Little Sparks #57

Hi there!

The 20th of June was the Summer Solstice, so it’s officially the start of summer! I spent this weekend catching up with friends and making more plans for summer activities.

Here’s my reading highlight:

Weyward by Emilia Hart
5 stars

June has been a pretty good reading month, with now one more 5 star read! This novel tugged at my heartstrings.

The story follows three generations of Wayward women dating back to 1619 and how they all used their powers to defend themselves, especially from violent men in their lives. The novel’s thesis is that ‘witching’ – to accuse a woman of being a witch is a type of gendered violence, as it was a blanket term that men used to assert power over women.

The novel did a great job of depicting the types of sexual discrimination women were facing during each time period of that respective generation. From being only seen as a walking uterus (and thus abused for not bearing children) during the 1600s to suffering at the hands of discriminatory male doctors who believed that mental illness resulted from having a female reproductive system and began diagnosing hysterectomy as treatment in the 1900s, and the risk and prevalence of stalking in today’s time.

Jun 10 – 16, 2024 | Little Sparks #56

Greetings!

I’m thankful for the break and time spent with friends. It was a reflective weekend.

Here’s my reading highlight:

The Infinite Game by Simon Sinek
4 stars

Wow! I had to take a moment. This book honestly, felt like an affirmation of my inner thoughts.

I was always puzzled about why some companies didn’t prioritise survival (as evident from their actions), which I felt was the most important, and were always focused on the short term gains. Sinek has elaborated this idea and provided significant evidence, with the notion that businesses are and should be engaged with as an infinite game.

The book gave me quite a lot of peace around my frustration with what work is and how it is performed today. I’m relieved I’m not the only one who thinks this way, and I definitely learned a lot:

  • We need a bias for will over performance across a company
  • Feelings are at the heart of trusting teams and building high performance teams
  • Psychological trust amongst employees is as important as technical/physical trust
  • Be cautious of self-deception
  • Don’t use a process to replace judgement

Jun 3 – 9, 2024 | Little Sparks #55

Hello!

I had a lovely weekend! I went to an art gallery and saw several exhibitions, from a Pride month-focused to an Emily Carr one, ate probably too many desserts, cycled around a beautiful park and went to my usual workout class.

Here’s my reading highlight:

Transcendent Kingdom by Yaa Gyasi
5 stars

A new 5-star read! This book made me feel so many different emotions – anger, laughter, sadness, and disappointment. There were so many themes discussed such as death, mental health, religion and love and the author engaged with all these themes nuancedly. Likewise, Gyasi did an amazing job merging different timelines. It was a brilliant portrayal of how one deals with grief.

May 27 – Jun 2, 2024 | Little Sparks #54

Hi there!

It’s June – the curtain to summer! This weekend was much better than the last for sure. I worked out, had delicious meals and enjoyed my downtime. I’m looking forward to taking in more experiences this summer.

Here’s my reading highlight:

The Sun Sets in Singapore by Kehinde Fadipe
4 stars

I struggled to describe what category the book was in apart from literary fiction, but I couldn’t tell why. However, towards the end, I figured it out – it’s because it follows Amaka, Dara and Lillian and their obsession as they live as migrants in Singapore. The setting – these women being Nigerian and living in Singapore as migrants, was interesting as it seemed like the only thing connecting them. However, further into the book, we learn that their obsessions are also connected.

It was a great debut novel and I’ll be keen to read more from the author! It was also fun how I had read all the books, except one, mentioned and picked for the book club the three female leads were in.

May 20 – 26, 2024 | Little Sparks #53

Greetings!

This week was exhausting, to say the least. I ended up having a very lethargic weekend.

Here’s my reading highlight:

Million Dollar Weekend: The Surprisingly Simple Way to Launch a 7-Figure Business in 48 Hours by Noah Kagan
4 stars

I’ve watched some of Noah’s YouTube videos. However, I learned about the book from Ali Abdaal’s video, in which he recommended it to folks wanting financial freedom.

The book is best read as a how-to guide and a guide you read as you take action. Overall, to summarise the book, it emphasises the importance of and highlights how to START NOW!

May 13 – 19, 2024 | Little Sparks #52

Hi there!

This week, a colleague shared that they don’t enjoy reading fiction (preferring to read nonfiction) because it doesn’t hold their attention since they can’t learn anything from it. While there might be some context I’m missing for why this colleague felt that way, I was a bit concerned by the blanket statements that one can’t learn anything from reading fiction and that nonfiction is superficial to fiction.

I think there’s a lot to learn from reading fiction. In Originals by Adam Grant, the authors shared that parents should help their kids draw creative lessons from the books they read to help them grow up as original thinkers. Reading fiction helps young kids gain morals (think The Boy Who Cried Wolf) and learn the importance of perseverance or manners (think Goldilocks and the 3 Bears). By the time we enter primary and secondary school, we are able to learn how to be better storytellers from reading (good) fiction novels. We get inspired to mimic the hook, flashback or multiple point-of-view techniques used by the authors we read. More often than not, fiction is not just entertainment; it’s also education in disguise.

As adults, reading fiction also builds our imagination and strengthens our empathy library. We can see the world through the eyes of a sailor, an assassin, or a single mom. We enter their ‘heads’ and feel their emotions. We reflect on our own experiences and gain the courage to re-imagine our lives. Likewise, we empathise more with others we otherwise may not have met in real life.

Reading (fiction and nonfiction) has been a transformative part of my life, and I have gained a lot from reading fiction. I still vividly remember how reading Purple Hibiscus by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie was a life-changing experience for me. It was the first time in my formative years that I had read or could remember reading a book where a Nigerian girl was the lead character. I was able to connect with Kambili and see myself in some areas. I was affirmed that I could be the lead character of a story and, more importantly, my own story. Fiction has the power to inspire us, to believe in our potential, which I think we all need in our lives.

Here’s my reading highlight for this week:

The Richest Man in Babylon by George Clason  
4 stars

The best way to describe this book is as “a tale old as time”. The money habits that made Babylon and folks in Babylon rich, shared through numerous anecdotes, are the many we have often heard of before. To summarise and put it simply:

  • Pay yourself first
  • Save and don’t spend beyond your means  
  • Invest and let your money work for you