Dec 9  –  15, 2024 | Little Sparks #82

Greetings!

Today was another pinnacle weekend – exercise, family, good books and baking.

Live is rich.

Here’s my reading highlight:

Main Street Millionaire: How to Make Extraordinary Wealth Buying Ordinary Businesses by Codie Sanchez
4 stars

This is a how-to book, so it would be most valuable if you were interested in a step-by-step guide on buying businesses. However, listening to her YouTube videos would be better than paying for the book if you were interested in her philosophy and arguments. Speaking of which, Sanchez makes a sound argument about being an owner (not to be confused with a founder) and the impact that it has not only on our wealth-building but also on our community.

On a somewhat separate note, this weekend, I heard an interview from Sanchez critiquing DEI initiatives and investing. Unfortunately, it was not nuanced and came from the common misconception that DEI initiatives get people of colour hired over white folk or women over men.  

Dec 2  –  8, 2024 | Little Sparks #81

Hi there!

This week’s highlights were my company’s 2025 goal-setting session and our holiday party. It was empowering to reflect on this year’s wins, share with and hear from the rest of the team, and look forward to the new year. Likewise, connecting with coworkers for longer and more personally was a blast (also low-key scary, hahaha).

Here’s my reading highlight:

Shut Up You’re Pretty by Téa Mutonji
4 stars

This book made me pretty sad. The novel centres on Loli and her experiences, heavily on her sexual experiences and the notion of consent, from the beginning of her move from the Democratic Republic of the Congo to Canada and issues revolving around poverty.

I was surprised to learn that Mutonji wrote the novel partly to counter negative stereotypes of the neighbourhood she grew up in, with her own positive narrative, because I’m not sure this objective was met.

Nov 25  –  Dec 1, 2024 | Little Sparks #80

Hello!

We are in the last month of the year! Goodness gracious, how time has passed. It’ll be time for the year-end reflections soon.

Here’s my reading highlight:

We Have Always Been Here: A Queer Muslim Memoir by Samra Habib
5 stars

This was a beautiful memoir. It was full of a lot of hope, especially on Samra’s commentary on how she only covers news of how Queer Muslims get through adversity and not how they are feeling with an announcement/implementation of discriminatory policy. It was also a powerful example of how the personal is political and being yourself is a form of protest.  

Nov 18  –  24, 2024 | Little Sparks #79

Hi there,

Today was a gratifying day. I worked out, cleaned the house and had dinner with friends. I would be thrilled if most of my weekends were like today.

Here’s my reading highlight:

The Art of War by Sun Tzu
3 stars

This book is often used in passing and as a reference. After reading it, I understand why. Not only did the author share clear strategies for, in fact, fighting a war, but it also detailed wisdom of why not to start a war and how to end one.

Nov 11  –  17, 2024 | Little Sparks #78

Greetings!

This weekend, I watched a Chinese drama following two families across several decades, from the early 1970s to the late 1990s. It was interesting to see the introduction of new inventions during that period and how they were received, from single hundred notes to the rice cooker. I’ve always enjoyed historical fiction, and while watching this drama, my takeaway was that some habits and cultural norms can often be traced back to conditions of our past.

Here’s my reading highlight:

An Enchantment of Ravens by Margaret Rogerson
4 stars

This was a great introduction to Margaret Rogerson’s work. The writing was engaging and refreshing, as the ‘faes’ in the world were ugly and conniving folks.

Nov 4  –  10, 2024 | Little Sparks #77

Hello!

Congratulations on getting through a tense week. Now that the dust has settled, we’ll see more analyses on why Harris didn’t win and what the Democrats did wrong. Keep in mind that the same reasoning would apply if she had won. Nevertheless, if I may share two (of my biggest) takeaways from the election results:

Some argue that the campaign’s outcome wasn’t a messaging problem but rather a reflection of sexism, racism, xenophobia, and other issues. While that’s true, it doesn’t tell the whole story. Democrats’ woes mirror a global trend: for the first time in 120 years, every incumbent party in a developed country facing national elections this year lost vote share. 

In this election, Democrats campaigned on the theme that democracy and women’s bodily autonomy were under threat. However, many voters didn’t share that fear. In states like Arizona, Missouri, and Montana, people elected Donald Trump while still supporting abortion rights. Trump also garnered significant support from Hispanic voters—seven in ten rated the economy as “not so good” or “poor,” and a slim majority of those backed Trump.  

Takeaway 1: The economy remains the biggest concern for most Americans. Housing is expensive, higher education is out of reach for many, and countless individuals live paycheck to paycheck while caring for ageing parents. Many Americans believe that life under Trump will be easier.

Historically, Democrats have represented a strong economy, advocating for working people against the establishment and big corporations. They have championed change and resonated with disaffected young voters. However, Donald Trump—rather than the Republican Party—has become a symbol of that change.

Yet economists suggest that the U.S. economy is recovering well after the pandemic and that Trump’s economic plans could cause inflation, making daily necessities even more expensive. So why do most voters still believe their lives would be better under Trump?  

Takeaway 2: Clear and simple communication often beats discussing plans and policies, especially when immediate relief is promised. Shifting perceptions is challenging.

When speaking to the economy, Democrats focused on sharing policies that would improve things with time and how Trump will make things worse with his plans. We now know that such rhetoric went over most Americans’ heads. How do tariffs actually work? Isn’t reducing taxes going to benefit me, too? On the other hand, Trump made bold promises and his message was – I see you, I will take action as soon as I enter office to improve your economic situation. I’m so good for the economy; I have the support of a billionaire. You do not have to wait. 

We can expect to see this approach and storytelling in the Trump campaign, especially as they attempt to roll back life-saving vaccines.

So what now?

From Harris’ concession speech, “When we fight, we win. But here’s the thing: sometimes, the fight takes a while…The important thing is to never give up. Don’t ever stop trying to make the world a better place. You have power…You have the capacity to do extraordinary good in the world.” 

Rest well! The fight continues. 

Here’s my reading highlight:

The Reservoir Tapes by Jon McGregor
3 stars

I thought I would be reading a thriller about a missing girl, Becky—how she disappeared when she was found, and what happened afterwards. Instead, it was a tale about the town, its secrets, and town members’ interactions with Becky. It was engaging and well-written.  

Oct 28 –  Nov 3, 2024 | Little Sparks #76

Hi there!

This week has been very stressful despite how productive it was.  I can only hope this coming week will not be the same.

Just a few hours ago, I saw a mother almost have her son go missing. The young boy was at the shopping mall doors with no caretaker. At his insistence on remembering where his parents’ car was parked, a well-intended adult began walking him to said location –  a decision I think was unwise. Luckily, the parents left the shopping mall doors shortly after, with the mother shouting for her son. The terror in her voice was evident, and so was the relief when she laid eyes on her son.

A haunting reminder of how things can change with the flick of a finger.

Here’s my reading highlight:

Beasts and Beauty by Soman Chainani
4 stars

Here’s another series of short stories I enjoyed, and oh…what a retelling! It read like a feminist retelling, but it was also more than that, with robust angles on what we can re-learn from fairytales. I was a bit surprised that the author was a man—I guess that’s a bias I should reflect on my part.

My favourite piece was The Little Mermaid because what sense is there in a young lady giving up her whole life and paying a swift price for doing so to set eyes on a man whose name she doesn’t know?

I recommend reading the physical book as there are illustrations.

Oct 21 –  Oct 27, 2024 | Little Sparks #75

Greetings!

I took a risk this week and booked a trip for next year— even though it’s unclear how the year will go. This is unlike me, who often craves to be in the know and has a plan for big events.

I’m no longer waiting for life to happen to me. Cheers to the unknown!

Here’s my reading highlight:

Two Scorched Men by Margaret Atwood
3 stars

I think that apart from wanting to be heard, ingrained in every human is the inherent desire not to be forgotten.

With an unnamed narrator, Atwood pays tribute beautifully in fictional form to two men she knew during the years she and her partner spent in Provence: John, a hotheaded Irishman who served in the Royal Navy during World War II and barely survived the deadly battles in the South Pacific; and François, a wry and affable Frenchman, who was once an operative in the French Resistance and led a life shaped by tragedy.

Oct 14  –  Oct 20, 2024 | Little Sparks #74

Hello!

It rained heavily throughout the weekend, and it was lovely to stay home and read. I dreaded the start of the colder seasons this year, but the beginning of autumn hasn’t been too bad. It has been a pleasant surprise.

Here’s my reading highlight:

A Dip in the Pool by Roald Dahl
3 stars

A fool’s bargain.

Oct 7  –  Oct 13, 2024 | Little Sparks #73

Hello!

I spent this week baking, returning to my workout schedule and exploring a new town.

It is often said that perspective changes everything, especially how one sees one’s situation. This week, I’ve been reflecting on this saying as I’m testing whether it’s time to adopt a new perspective or if such emotions call me to change my current situation.

Here’s my reading highlight:

The Oracle Queen (Three Dark Crowns #0.1) by Kendare Blake
4 stars

I began another fantasy series. I guess this is a consequence of watching The House of Dragon and wanting a story about taking the throne that is not so messy or scandalous.

This prequel novella about the Three Dark Crowns introduced the Oracle Queen, and it was quite a riveting read. Elsabet is a strong character, and I’m hoping we get to see her resistance to the takeover and other similarly strong female characters in the other books.